I am sorry you had that experience DeeDee. That guy was an asshole, period. He definitely knew what he was doing. A lot of people (read guys) so things like these to boost their fragile ego, and it's bullshit.
This guy I met in my department, very intelligent dude. Like he so intelligent he doesn't need a book when teaching.
I met him to teach me because I resumed school late exams where fast approaching and I haven't covered anything.
He taught me and I understood it. It's as though he opened my mind, restarted a clock that once stopped, because I was so overwhelmed by everything before he taught me and explained things for me.
The next thing I know he is pestering me to marry him. Telling me things like I am already taken and stuff like that.
I want to avoid him with my life.
And now the book I want to learn, thoughts of him just keep resurfacing and I am fighting, struggling to understand what I am reading. Just day two of speaking with him. I feel it's a lie and I want to believe it's a lie. My mind betrays me all the time.
I will confront him and rant, beacuse this is not what I bargained for.
As a Christian girlie I’ve found myself reducing how much things effect me so I don’t sound too emotional because in a way I’ve associated it with being wrong (in the unrighteous way) like I shouldn’t be angry because anger isn’t good. But the Bible doesn’t say don’t be angry it says don’t go to bed angry😭
Once I clocked that I started experiencing these emotions better. Especially in the context of guysssssssssss
Like bro this was hurtful and yeah you’re nice but this HURT. You behaved in a way that made me feel bad.
And when I say emotional I mean feelings of anger and frustration
😔 isn’t the mind such a beautiful place? Hope you were able to sleep 🫂. 😔 oh chim that other gender. I have stories for yeasss when it comes to Christian or Jesus men… I just remembered a pastor who liked me (very toxic something). See how this man is stressing our find babe 😔.
Ohh she caught feelings 🤭 Cutee..
Aww she even read books and listened to podcasts.. he didn’t say anything about it keh 😭( men annoy me). 😭 oh the matured one 😂😭 don’t do that to yourself cutieeee. You’re not crazy for feeling this way, you’re growing, learning and it’s beautiful.
😭They will give you signs and just be acting like they didn’t go to school. What does the sign me broo, don’t confuse me 🤦♀️. Treating every other girl special keh😭… you were just one of the girls, okay byeeee😔. You are really that friend (chokes on my saliva). Awww I love when I’m written too. Yess he was irresponsible with your feelings and he deserves a hot k*ock. They don’t know emotional intelligence Is another aspect of Christian growth and it’s sad. Awww she’s self aware (so cool).
He said nooooo🤦♀️ just no I am so pissed at him. Men are so meannnn Haaaa. 🫂sending hugs and kisses.
Please call everyone out if they don’t have home training we will tell them our minds. 😂😭 She is a Jezebel is so real ..
Maybe I should do a ted talk for men 😂😭 but mehn…. 😔 she said no substance in the conversation (nne you dodged a bullet).
I literally 😂 listened and wrote was what on my mind at the same time. Sorry it’s long…
I am sorry you had that experience DeeDee. That guy was an asshole, period. He definitely knew what he was doing. A lot of people (read guys) so things like these to boost their fragile ego, and it's bullshit.
Thank God you put him in his place.
Period ohhhh. Thank you, Mubarak😊
This guy I met in my department, very intelligent dude. Like he so intelligent he doesn't need a book when teaching.
I met him to teach me because I resumed school late exams where fast approaching and I haven't covered anything.
He taught me and I understood it. It's as though he opened my mind, restarted a clock that once stopped, because I was so overwhelmed by everything before he taught me and explained things for me.
The next thing I know he is pestering me to marry him. Telling me things like I am already taken and stuff like that.
I want to avoid him with my life.
And now the book I want to learn, thoughts of him just keep resurfacing and I am fighting, struggling to understand what I am reading. Just day two of speaking with him. I feel it's a lie and I want to believe it's a lie. My mind betrays me all the time.
I will confront him and rant, beacuse this is not what I bargained for.
Heww Jesus innocent me like this.
Ahhh, from where to where? Please, he should shift
Likeee😞😞😞
Boys should also learn how to be men, how to be good friends and better men for the betterment of our society.
It's not when women finish training girls to be well behaved women. Then these will now be given to irresponsible men who did not have training.
Guys should learn too biko.
Yessssss. Everytime, 'as a woman this, as a woman that.' For people who are supposed to be the head of the home, the complacency is too much
As a Christian girlie I’ve found myself reducing how much things effect me so I don’t sound too emotional because in a way I’ve associated it with being wrong (in the unrighteous way) like I shouldn’t be angry because anger isn’t good. But the Bible doesn’t say don’t be angry it says don’t go to bed angry😭
Once I clocked that I started experiencing these emotions better. Especially in the context of guysssssssssss
Like bro this was hurtful and yeah you’re nice but this HURT. You behaved in a way that made me feel bad.
And when I say emotional I mean feelings of anger and frustration
I get you girl, I get you😭
Like brooooo, you're nice but you hurt me. Period.
Me I'll express my feelings. No more miss nice girl. I'm kind but I'm not nice.
Thank you for getting me, Ruona😭❤️
😔 isn’t the mind such a beautiful place? Hope you were able to sleep 🫂. 😔 oh chim that other gender. I have stories for yeasss when it comes to Christian or Jesus men… I just remembered a pastor who liked me (very toxic something). See how this man is stressing our find babe 😔.
Ohh she caught feelings 🤭 Cutee..
Aww she even read books and listened to podcasts.. he didn’t say anything about it keh 😭( men annoy me). 😭 oh the matured one 😂😭 don’t do that to yourself cutieeee. You’re not crazy for feeling this way, you’re growing, learning and it’s beautiful.
😭They will give you signs and just be acting like they didn’t go to school. What does the sign me broo, don’t confuse me 🤦♀️. Treating every other girl special keh😭… you were just one of the girls, okay byeeee😔. You are really that friend (chokes on my saliva). Awww I love when I’m written too. Yess he was irresponsible with your feelings and he deserves a hot k*ock. They don’t know emotional intelligence Is another aspect of Christian growth and it’s sad. Awww she’s self aware (so cool).
He said nooooo🤦♀️ just no I am so pissed at him. Men are so meannnn Haaaa. 🫂sending hugs and kisses.
Please call everyone out if they don’t have home training we will tell them our minds. 😂😭 She is a Jezebel is so real ..
Maybe I should do a ted talk for men 😂😭 but mehn…. 😔 she said no substance in the conversation (nne you dodged a bullet).
I literally 😂 listened and wrote was what on my mind at the same time. Sorry it’s long…
Girllll, I love itttt. My vibe honestly. It's like we're actually having a conversation. Thank you nne. God will have to help us with these men b
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Omoooooooo I've been that guy before... I learned the hard way. Trust me, he did it intentionally... He even enjoyed doing it. sorry about it jare
Omooooo, thank you jare