And no, I'm never going to be with a man who has a female best friend, I'm a good girl so I understand that he might have close female friends before we met but after I come boundaries should come in, they can still hangout and still be close fr, I would be foolish to end my man's relationship with his female friends, but it's me first......I'm the wife and the bestie 🤭.
And men rather than making your woman feel awkward with that your bestie, just marry the bestie, no dey stress pesin!
I need to find new ways to say “this was amazing!” so I can pull them up whenever I read something you write DeeDee!😂 But seriously the way reading the story felt like watching a movie (the flow!!!) was just *chef’s kiss* You’re such an amazing writer!!
Also, I completely agree with Zara! I can’t be competing with another female for any man’s affection, abeg 🤧
Lol. I've been in this opposite sex best friend situation before. I was the best friend.
I have always believed that at a point, the relationship between the two must change: either step up or step down before someone gets hurt.
Sometimes, people are not able to discern the moment that decision has to be made and continue with their best friendship to the detriment of both of them and other people.
You have to choose. Do I step up into a more permanent place of a (potential) spouse or step down to a regular friend to make way for a (potential) spouse. You cannot keep going like that.
Two shout outs in one letter. I'm killing this beta reader work and I'm also winning in the "amazing friend who puts people on to golden shows" department. Yay me🤩🤩🤩
Biko, let's abolish opposite sex besties. It doesn't work. Stop wounding people. Okay bye
Good!! So good!!!🤭🥹
And no, I'm never going to be with a man who has a female best friend, I'm a good girl so I understand that he might have close female friends before we met but after I come boundaries should come in, they can still hangout and still be close fr, I would be foolish to end my man's relationship with his female friends, but it's me first......I'm the wife and the bestie 🤭.
And men rather than making your woman feel awkward with that your bestie, just marry the bestie, no dey stress pesin!
And thank you for reading, Tefillah
Yes yes yes!!! They should marry their besties please.
I need to find new ways to say “this was amazing!” so I can pull them up whenever I read something you write DeeDee!😂 But seriously the way reading the story felt like watching a movie (the flow!!!) was just *chef’s kiss* You’re such an amazing writer!!
Also, I completely agree with Zara! I can’t be competing with another female for any man’s affection, abeg 🤧
Awwww, you're too kind Ife. Thank youuu.
It's like you know my writing process so well. I write what I'd love to watch on screen.
God forbid we compete for a man's affection.
What me I sha know is- I'm not going to be with a man with a female best friend o.
I'm your best friend, fine boy. 😂
Great read, DeeDee!
Girllll, same. I'm not that evolved.
Thank you, Taiwo❤️
Lol. I've been in this opposite sex best friend situation before. I was the best friend.
I have always believed that at a point, the relationship between the two must change: either step up or step down before someone gets hurt.
Sometimes, people are not able to discern the moment that decision has to be made and continue with their best friendship to the detriment of both of them and other people.
You have to choose. Do I step up into a more permanent place of a (potential) spouse or step down to a regular friend to make way for a (potential) spouse. You cannot keep going like that.
Great read as always.
I 100% agree. I had to tell a male friend this and it was a whole thing.
Thank you for reading, Akua.
Opposite sex best friends??😭😭😭
Terrible please
Like Cassia said, let’s abolish it!
Trash it now 🚮🚮 (In Papeeyah's voice)
Opposite sex best friends??😭😭😭
Terrible please
Like Cassia said, let’s abolish it!
Two shout outs in one letter. I'm killing this beta reader work and I'm also winning in the "amazing friend who puts people on to golden shows" department. Yay me🤩🤩🤩
Biko, let's abolish opposite sex besties. It doesn't work. Stop wounding people. Okay bye
You're an amazing friend. The best. Period.
A law needs to be passed. If your best friend is the opposite sex, y'all will not date other people.
I second this motion
Court dismissed!
Omo I feel so bad for zara. Glad she figured the whole thing out early sha
Honestly.
Also, hi Kehinde. It's me that is planning to steal your twin 😅❤️
This is too good, please. Thank you Dee!
See ehn, love that has drama? No, please. I was telling my friend some days ago that I won't be in the following scenarios:
- With someone who used to have a thing for any of my friends
- With someone who once dated or almost my friend!
- With someone who would make me feel like a second option
I won't be there, please.
And bless Zara's heart, because I for comot Lara wig make she truly resemble Larry. Mtchew
Cassia please I almost laughed out in my lecture😅😅😭
What can I say? I'm quite hilarious
You are very hilarious ma'am 😅
Thank youuuu, Debola😊❤️
We won't be there please. You and me both. Any love with drama, byeeeee.